Guys, seriously, I NEED to know what to think.?

Buying you perfume is not being controlling... if he liked the scents he was probably hoping you would like them too. I buy my wife oerfume without knowing if she likes it or not. If he has had a drinking problem before, just make him stay away from the bars, and no liquor in the house. Don't worry about the other women either, he is probably telling you about it because he feels secure in sharing the details of his life with you and doesn't feel like you will be jealous about things in his past or make umptions about him because of it. He's being nice to you and treating you well, thats why you're falling for him....and any guy who is willing to go without the to have a relationship with a girl is dedicated.